Our friend Noah with his candle. |
In Fall and Winter the days
become shorter and shorter leading up to winter solstice, until December 21st
when the sun seems to be a distracted visitor who shows up late and has to leave
before tea time. In Alaska we notice the
change dramatically—though in Southeast we’re lightweights (no pun intended)
compared to the inimitable darkness experienced by those further North. And though I ’ve suffered through my fair
share of SAD (Seasonal Affective Disorder), I think there is something to learn
from the flux of the seasons—something to gain from being attentive to this
melancholy brought on by the lack of light.
For we only know the full power of the light in the midst of the most
overwhelming darkness. My family discovered
this on a summer trip to the Carlsbad Caverns in New Mexico when I was 10. Deep within the caves, our guide turned off
all of the artificial lighting (after instructing all parents to grab hold of
their children) and then, after a moment of darkness so black it was hard to
know if you still existed, a single match lit up the cave like a firecracker
and there we all were again.
Ani & Jess helped to light everyone's candles before Mass began. |
Today our family brought our
candles to the church, not a cartload, just the last eight white tapers I could
find at Foodland Super Drug. This year,
we’ll light them before dinner most nights, even if we’re just having leftovers,
even if I’m cranky or Jackson’s refusing to eat his asparagus, or Jeff’s out of
town, or the girls are stressed out about homework and music practice and
wanting to play outside with their friends.
We’ll light our candles, hold hands
and remember we are on holy ground in the church of our home, where Christ the
Light of the world, dwells in ordinary and extraordinary ways.
Duncan just asked me why we put our advent wreath away. We should have candle-lit dinners all year round.
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